10 commandments of Human relations...

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I found this Commandments of Human Relation in a torn book that I 'd like to do away. Just like to share it here so it'll not be gone with the book...
(L'ecole Des Ettiquette Training guide)


1. Speak to people

There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting 

2. Call people by name

The sweetest music to  any one's ear is the sound of their own name

3. Be friendly and helpful

If you want to have friends, you've to be friendly

4. Be cordial

Speak and act as if everything you do were genuine pleasure

5. Be considerate of others' feelings

This will be very much appreciated

6. Bear in mind others' opinion

There are three sides to a controversy - yours, the other person and the right one

7. Be genuinely interested in people

You can like almost everybody if you try

8. Be generous with praise; cautious with criticism

Remember, the best thing to do behind a person's back is to pat it

9. Be ready to go extra mile - willingly

What counts most in life is what we do for others

10. Smile at people

It takes 72 muscles to frown and only 14 to smile. And isn't the smile the fierst thing you notice about a person?









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